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Black Dragon   Joined: March 26th, 2007, 2:06 am Posts: 6303 Location: the net of love, the whirlwind of passion, the heat of a soccer game, or partying. Gender: Guy Affiliation: Dragonriders |
 Yes, we do care >.>all right, this has been troubling me. lately I've been hearing from some girls that guys don't seem to care about them and that our attitude can hurt them. all right, if this is true and most girls think that, then please post and tell me if it is. (This hasn't been meant for me specifically, but guys in general) it doesn't seem like it to me, but apparently we're too guy-ish to care about them.
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| December 28th, 2008, 5:39 am |
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ROBOT KITTEN FOOD   Joined: June 26th, 2007, 2:53 pm Posts: 5506 Location: I'm wherever you want me to be. Gender: Girl Affiliation: Elves Dragon: Existiea |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> Why do you always make these topics after we talk about them...? Oh nevermind...
I never said that you didn't care, I said you have an odd way of showing it sometimes and sometimes your attitudes can hurt us. _________________ Good: Caete Niriz Isabella & Nirexi Ardyce & Existiae Notus Neutral: Jo Nirafe Vinixia Garm Irina Verdican Evil: Aescix Soleil |
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| December 28th, 2008, 5:41 am |
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Black Dragon Joined: March 26th, 2007, 2:06 am Posts: 6303 Location: the net of love, the whirlwind of passion, the heat of a soccer game, or partying. Gender: Guy Affiliation: Dragonriders |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> okay, that's one opinion, okay, I need to hear more though. and it wasn't just you, don't be so judgmental, okay?
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| December 28th, 2008, 5:47 am |
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ROBOT KITTEN FOOD Joined: June 26th, 2007, 2:53 pm Posts: 5506 Location: I'm wherever you want me to be. Gender: Girl Affiliation: Elves Dragon: Existiea |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> I'm not judgemental... Its just these always appear after I talk to someone... and I have to wonder why I don't make topics like these...
 Oh well..._________________ Good: Caete Niriz Isabella & Nirexi Ardyce & Existiae Notus Neutral: Jo Nirafe Vinixia Garm Irina Verdican Evil: Aescix Soleil |
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| December 28th, 2008, 5:48 am |
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Pack Alpha   Joined: April 9th, 2007, 10:48 am Posts: 9373 Gender: Girl Affiliation: Galbatorix Dragon: Facebones |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> Angel, how many topics have you even made in your life? Two?
Guys .... insensetive ... hmm ... yes ... they can be and I know that. Topic solved. Oh well, sorry I saw this, lol. _________________ 
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| December 28th, 2008, 6:31 am |
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ROBOT KITTEN FOOD Joined: June 26th, 2007, 2:53 pm Posts: 5506 Location: I'm wherever you want me to be. Gender: Girl Affiliation: Elves Dragon: Existiea |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> Hey... I think at least 3... lol....
Point proven. _________________ Good: Caete Niriz Isabella & Nirexi Ardyce & Existiae Notus Neutral: Jo Nirafe Vinixia Garm Irina Verdican Evil: Aescix Soleil |
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| December 28th, 2008, 6:36 am |
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Master DragonRider   Joined: December 23rd, 2007, 3:28 pm Posts: 2036 Location: RN!! Gender: Girl Affiliation: Dragonriders |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> well i think for MOST guys once you get to know them on a intimate level they will start to open up and show their emotions more!! but guys dont show they care the SAME way that girls do so women have to realize that
i hope that made sense!! lol _________________  ] kotorchief said Become a ninja, leave clumsiness behind. just got engaged to my wonderful man!! finally after 6 years.
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| December 28th, 2008, 4:22 pm |
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EP Team Head   Joined: March 29th, 2006, 12:12 pm Posts: 3796 Location: somewhere.. Gender: Guy Affiliation: Elves Dragon: Kalis |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> If you'd ask me, I'd say it all comes down to the individual person..
Some guys can be insensitive, some girls can be very much alike.. Anyways, I think this topic can get pretty ugly, so be careful where this is going at.. Or it'll have to be locked.. _________________
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| December 28th, 2008, 5:29 pm |
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Dragon Egg Carrier   Joined: December 25th, 2008, 3:36 am Posts: 185 Location: Why do you want to know? STALKER!!! Gender: Guy |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> O.o I know this may sound strange but (I'm probroly gonna regret saying this later) I agree that most guys seem to not care about women's feelings or they don't show it. I mean, the majority of my friends are girls and after seeing them go through multiple crushes where they OBVIOUSLY showed they like the guy (like going with them all the time, ect) the guy had no clue what was going on, not even considering them a friend. Anyways, for myself, I'm just gonna say that some guys actually do care however, it's just most are ignorant due to human nature...
_________________ "Only by letting other people into our worlds, can we find new ways to be ourselves", Yoshira Kiryu aka Joshua from TWEWY "Do what you want, when you want, how you like it."Mr. Hanekoma, TWEWY "Courage is the magic that turns dreams into reality" "When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself." 
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| December 28th, 2008, 5:39 pm |
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Master DragonRider  Joined: September 14th, 2008, 8:49 am Posts: 2726 Location: Earth. Gender: Guy Affiliation: Vardens |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> well i kinda agree with both wole and neku...
_________________ Bonjour le monde! Mon nom est Sid. J'aime ma copine plus que tout autre chose ou quelqu'un dans la totalité de l'univers... J'espère qu'elle comprend... If I think your cool enough, I might just contact you... Not from the computer or anything... But there should be a message in your city... Somewhere... Don't believe me? I don't want you to. Just be on the lookout... You'll find out for yourself soon enough... That is, if your cool enough... |
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| December 28th, 2008, 5:47 pm |
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Global Moderator...   Joined: November 28th, 2005, 3:44 pm Posts: 10150 Location: England Gender: Girl Affiliation: Surdans Dragon: Llyelia |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> I agree with Wolvie. It's all down to the individual. you really can't generalise, that's like saying, are blondes stupid? Well yes, some are, but so are some brunettes and so on.
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| December 28th, 2008, 7:29 pm |
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Master DragonRider  Joined: August 7th, 2006, 8:09 pm Posts: 2577 Location: In Wonderland of course Gender: Girl |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> I have to say everyone has a side where they are insensitive because i use to be friends with this guy that would listen to me and we were friends however like on certain levels he was a total jerk like his friend came over and started saying all this mean stuff about my bf and me and just a bunch of stuff and it was on his aim not the guy bad mouthing me and he didnt stop him and after i heard he was laughing about it the whole time so i have to say everyone has two sides to them
and im a smart blonde lol _________________ Life in Death has won my soul, Thus I am cursed for all eternity to relive this horrible moment forever. I want to experience something new, I am tired of living in this box I call my life. |
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| December 28th, 2008, 7:30 pm |
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Green Dragon   Joined: June 13th, 2006, 1:14 pm Posts: 7742 Gender: Girl Affiliation: Dragonriders Dragon: Glacies |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> Yeah, it's all based on the individual. I mean, I know a lot of insensitive guys, but I also know a lot of sensitive ones. I can say the same thing about girls. People just have different ways of expressing themselves in relationships or whatever. But I do think guys can be sensitive. I actually prefer that lol.
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| December 29th, 2008, 2:39 am |
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Elder's Conclave   Joined: July 4th, 2006, 2:32 am Posts: 1418 Gender: Guy Affiliation: Shades Dragon: Prothera |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> It's not that I don't care...it's just a matter of girls have a way of blowing nearly everything out of proportion. Therefore, if it's something I deem stupid that was blown out of proportion I truly don't care. So in a sense I can be insensitive.
Me, I try to be there for girls when something big goes down. However, for guys in general there is a huge yellow flag when it comes to that. Being the "sensitive" guy, leads to a big whopping friend zone ticket...Do you like a girl? Too bad, you're in the friend zone...just for showing that you care. The ladies don't like to admit it, but it happens. It's happened to me, it's happened to my friends...it happens. _________________ Global Moderator | EP Team | Elder's Convlave |
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| December 29th, 2008, 2:59 am |
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Sovereign DragonRider   Joined: November 26th, 2007, 3:11 am Posts: 4889 Location: The Jongmu Temple Gender: Guy Affiliation: Dragonriders |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> I agree with most of the people here, guys can be insensitive, but usually those are the ones that play every sport and try to keep their 'image'. But believe me, many guys are sensitive and show their feelings. You just have to take my word for it.
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| December 29th, 2008, 5:38 am |
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Global Moderator... Joined: November 28th, 2005, 3:44 pm Posts: 10150 Location: England Gender: Girl Affiliation: Surdans Dragon: Llyelia |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> I reckon there's more pressure on guys to keep a facade, if they show too much sensitivity, they're deemed gay. Girls don't have to do that because nobody will make fun of them for showing more emotions (although in that respect, I personally think I'm more like a guy, if I'm upset, I won't show it around other people). You don't know what two people are like when they're alone, and when you truly understand a guy, that's when they're most likely to open up to you.
I personally don't think that there's any difference at all in the range of emotions guys and girls feel at any given time, it's just how much they display it that makes them seem a certain way sometimes. _________________ . . . . . .
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| December 29th, 2008, 2:50 pm |
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Master DragonRider Joined: August 7th, 2006, 8:09 pm Posts: 2577 Location: In Wonderland of course Gender: Girl |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> I have to agree with Death_to_Varden on this one some guys will be there for girls when they are upset and end up in the friends zone its not fair but I've done it myself so that is one reason guys may seem insensitive because they don't want to get involved.
_________________ Life in Death has won my soul, Thus I am cursed for all eternity to relive this horrible moment forever. I want to experience something new, I am tired of living in this box I call my life. |
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| December 29th, 2008, 7:38 pm |
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Master DragonRider  Joined: December 9th, 2007, 7:28 pm Posts: 2518 Gender: Guy Affiliation: Dragonriders |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> I voted for some of them... I agree with Aang and Wolvie. I mean, there is such a thing as a sensitive guy, look at Kotor or Aang...
And the only reasons guys need to keep an image is because of the strong competition amongst each other. Guys are more competitive, while girls are more cooperative... |
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| December 29th, 2008, 8:48 pm |
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Expert DragonRider  Joined: November 23rd, 2007, 4:27 am Posts: 1737 Gender: Guy Affiliation: Lamp Shade |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> I have no image and my friends and I arn't competitive. I can be very open, I'm just quiet. I don't get attacked at all.
In ways it will also be how people are raised. I'v seen insensitive and competitive girls. _________________ ♥☻♪☺∞ |
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| December 29th, 2008, 9:05 pm |
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Master DragonRider Joined: August 7th, 2006, 8:09 pm Posts: 2577 Location: In Wonderland of course Gender: Girl |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> me too i dont think it matters whether it is a guy or a girl its all about their individual personality
_________________ Life in Death has won my soul, Thus I am cursed for all eternity to relive this horrible moment forever. I want to experience something new, I am tired of living in this box I call my life. |
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| December 29th, 2008, 9:09 pm |
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Admin   Joined: June 13th, 2006, 7:47 pm Posts: 6039 Gender: Guy Affiliation: Fyrm Club Dragon: Shedai |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> Firetongue wrote: I reckon there's more pressure on guys to keep a facade, if they show too much sensitivity, they're deemed gay. Girls don't have to do that because nobody will make fun of them for showing more emotions (although in that respect, I personally think I'm more like a guy, if I'm upset, I won't show it around other people). You don't know what two people are like when they're alone, and when you truly understand a guy, that's when they're most likely to open up to you. I personally don't think that there's any difference at all in the range of emotions guys and girls feel at any given time, it's just how much they display it that makes them seem a certain way sometimes. I have nothing else to say except I agree 100 percent. You're completely right. WHat's this friend zone thing? I don't understand completely. _________________ :::Forum Rules:::Facebook:::Twitter::: Myn's Bio |
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| December 29th, 2008, 9:14 pm |
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Master DragonRider Joined: August 7th, 2006, 8:09 pm Posts: 2577 Location: In Wonderland of course Gender: Girl |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> The "friend zone" is when you become so close to a girl but you can't date her because she thinks of you as JUST a friend. like you talk to her about other guys and are supportive like a best friend and the girl cant think of you romantically anymore. This doesnt happen all the time though.
Does that make sense? _________________ Life in Death has won my soul, Thus I am cursed for all eternity to relive this horrible moment forever. I want to experience something new, I am tired of living in this box I call my life. |
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| December 29th, 2008, 9:22 pm |
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Sovereign DragonRider  Joined: September 29th, 2007, 9:24 pm Posts: 3838 Gender: Girl Affiliation: Elves |
Re: Yes, we do care >.> very much so, well said.
i voted that some guys an be very incensitive...they can be very cruel. trust me on that. but some guys are completely the opposite. i know many of each kind. girls also can be sensitive or incensitive. it all deends on the person, and therefore i cant categorize all guys into being sensitive or incensitive. the same way with girls. honestly i dont believe gender has anything to do with it. |
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