ask him out then. Guys don't always have to ask girls.

sometimes we just dont have the courage.

Nightwish are you a male ? --sorry I wasn't here for sometime for catching up stories--

yeah Stargazer just ask him out,, it's not that hard ^.^

I'll give you a hint fathskie, check Nightwish's IP address And I have the most confusing relationship thing (not problem, just... thing), but I don't think I'll write it here, because people will just tell me what I already know

Muhehehehh... OH right thanks for the hint Firetongue,, to be frank I'm about to miss him just now... haha I figured there's no need to

Uhmm... I thought you and Ollie broke up...

Oh yeah, ages ago. It's somebody else who is confusing me. I told him exactly how I felt, and now he's as confused as I am

ima really shy person....but this guy keeps looking at me in class and i just cant find the courage to talk to him at all. little help? o and these 3 other people from last year like me still wut should i say to them if i dont wanna go out with them?

if i were a girl, would i say, this!? " Firetoungue is playn hard to get but i know she likes me. "

...Some one from england moved ot mine and l.i. school...his name was olivar/ollie

Huh ??



Well... usually we don't talk to literally 'everyone' in our class,, so it seems a bit unnatural to come to someone in class who we don't usually talk to, and talk about random things. But remember if you have one reason to chat with him,, don't let the chance go !!

Don't worry,, the guy will talk to you sooner or later, because being in the same class, perhaps he already knows you are shy,, so he (probably) knows that he's the one who need to make the first move ^^



Just say, "I'm happy for your feelings but I'm sorry.. I already have someone I like" or things like that

good luck!

I wouldnt ask this guy out because what if he realy dosent like me and it is all a mistake. I hate relationships they are soooooooooo complicated, by the way if this guy asked me out it would be the first time I know how reatarded is she?

Faithskie, im trying to ,ake a piont that im not a girl, and Firetoungue is playing hard to get. Star, it is a big mistake if the guy doesnt like you. its bes tto ask him in a note.

"sniffle" thanx night wish or solum but I may not have to worry about that thanx to the girl who spread it around i liked him

that's good- he knows you like him, and if he does like you, you'll be together in no time


Next! ok, if you want to talk to a random person who you've never spoken to before, find out who his friends are, then his friends friends and so on, until it gets to somebody you talk to quite a bit, then meet up with that person and their friends, so you can befriend one of their friends and so on. until you make friends with the guy you wanted to talk to in the first place lol, I confuse myself. Or, you could just walk up to him, take a deep breath and say Nice bag, or shoes, or whatever then start a conversation from there. yah?!

i dont know because if he dosent I willl be ridiculed

Well, basically you have a choice. I myself don't give a damn what other people think about me, so it's a lot easier for me to say this. You can either ask him out, which could come out as either:
1) him saying yes and you having a fantastic relationship
2) him saying no and you being ridiculed for a couple of days

or you can never ask him out which could come out as:
1) you constantly wondering what would have happened if you asked him out.

so, your choice.

I have no idea what to do. If only he would ask me out first. but who knows he may considering he flirts with me constantly

Firetoungue, we both kno that you like me.

ok, you know what firetounge(sp) you helped me out, now i help you out. if he likes youu, or you think he might like you, dont waste your time waiting for him to do the asking, hes a guy! if you want something you have to go get it. besides, i think the whole waiting for the guy to make the first move is just plain stupid. you know how guys are, impossibly stubborn about their reputation and hey think that if the girl they like says no, their rep is damaged, but thats not all guys, some guys are realy nice. you never know.

wow! am i that stubborn?!

(uhm.. wasn't it stargazer's and *dragon heart*'s problems and we're advising to them ?)

It's been a very long time since the last time I attracted to a guy who-isn't-my-friend. It's harder, coz' naturally we're never talk. And usually it was only because the surface (handsomeness, cuteness, etc) but not because I like him as what he is.. But I remember what I did in such circumstances,, I never told them how I feel

Hahaha... I remember one time I found this guy very charming and good looking,, and somehow I started to befriended him,, and he asked me out for a date. But afterwards we remain friends,, nothing special going on.. hehehe...

wow your spot on arent you?

nightwish who r u ? HUH SON U MESSIN WITH FIRETOUNGUE YO MAN ME N SOLEMBUM( if he was here) WOULD KILL YA SON

fyi he is solumbum hahahahahahahahaha

man its me.

You should really learn how to use grammer.

on the topic of liking people, because all the people in my year are assh**es, I like a guy in my big sisters year (2 years older). The problem is, the guy that I like, he coaches our hockey team and his sister is in my class.

neat. i used to like this one chick in my band class but past all that ptittyness and her goofy eye shadow, SHES A BIC**!!!!!!

solembum dat was a joke...

hey everyone, guess what????im going to my first highschool dance and i have a date! yay! *sarcastic grin* its all right if you dont care, ummm...............(april says) i dont care about your life so you dont have to care about my life....so its all good.

yo thats awsme im happy for u

Thankyou, just one catch, the guy doesnt know hes going with me yet ....ive asked and he said hes not sure if hes gonna go , and i just smiled and told him thats all right, i dont give up easily when i want something . he just laughed. im planning on buying two tickets when they go on sale, then when he least expects it, im gonna give him one and see his reaction . if he says he cant go or something ill say fine, take back the ticket, and hand it to one of the other guys who are in lines to ask me out . god i love being hot ! its so amuseing to watch the guys eyes open as you "glide" by , head held high, aloof, distant, and full of self confidence . (which ive just acquired the self confidence ) Even some of the girls backoff when i walked down the hallways , Sorta like walking down an aisle(sp). its a ton of fun . lol. sorry, i dont mean to sound arrogant , im just realy happy about the change of how people treat me now.

ok, theres this guy at my skool and he's kinda freaking me out. He said my mom invited him over to my house and he was going to come over sometime so he could "come and see my new house" and he was asking for my # and acting really wierd about the whole thing and later my friend was teasing me about it and i told her it was a good thing that he didn't like me and she said "He likes you as more than a friend, its obvious" and i got really creeped out, he's one of those guys that you can only think of as a friend, ya'know? Plus i have a bf that im head over heals for, im not sure he knows though. What should i do? Cuz i really dont want him over at my house if he likes me . . . . .

Hmm...

My advise is...

Try to mention your boyfriend infront of him (make sure he *hear* it), chat with your friends or mutter something,, so that he'll know you're already have a boyfriend without you have to tell him explicitly ^_^

If after that he still want to make a move,, Uhmm.. well that's another thing,, for now lets hope he won't.. ^^


And oh,, may I know what is the # suppose to mean ??

it means he was asking for her phone number

Yup, thats it. Thanks Fathskie

That's good that you've developed confidence. I myself am pug fugly (ok, maybe an exaggeration- but I'm not exactly stunning) but I don't care, because I have fantastic friends who look for personality over beauty, and I think that is so cool of them. On msn I was discussing how nerdy this guy is, and he goes "I'm not a nerd, you're a nerd!" so I said "Yeah, I know, I'm the queen of all nerds! yay!" and then my other guy friend goes "a hot nerd" so I'm happy lol.

Ahaha well my situation seems worse... i think Im falling in love with my best friend =\

ooooooooooooooooo....thats ackward....do you know if she likes you back?

no idea...and I dont wanna ruin a like 5 year friendship though

i see yiur point, well, maybe you can find a subtle way, like ask her if shed go out with"someone like me." and then say figuratively speaking. and get her answer, and if she asks why, make up some phony story, like, i want to date this one girl but i want to know if someone like her would go out with me, and shes kinda like you. so im just curious. " of corse you dont have to do it my way. its just a suggestion.

thre actually quite good suggestions...she gets back from Rome tmrrrow, ill phone her and ask to meet her.

so cutteee...!!

Ah but I have a bad experience on this matter... Once I fell for my closest boy friend (although we only have 1 year of friendship instead of 5), and from the point on we're just not as close and never hang out together again (beside the fact that he changed school) and I always regret I made that confess. Really really... regret it !!!

Hmm...
what dragon love suggest... I.. don't quite agree. When you telling her the phony story, that means you made up some fake scenario and believe me, a girl would find it awkward and she must feel something different with your tone,, in example you say, "I like this girl and she's kinda like you"
"Like me,, what do you mean like me? Who is she? Someone I know?" and you would have a hard time answering her questions. It would turn out becoming a strong hint instead of subtle..

My suggestion is,, Hold her hand when you have the reason to do it, and don't let go until she told you too ^^ A small phisycal contact like that could 'add' something to a girl's feeling,, even if previously she didn't feel anything towards a man. Plus, it could be a subtle hint too, only a bit more vague,, so it's safer ^^

hmm...interesting...you know, i believe we should have a chat on the ways of men, it seems you know a lot on that subject.....

there are no"ways of men" we just do what we feel like....

thats what you think, but ive seen it. Girls play us, they play us good... they know how to make us do stuff without us always knowing there making us, sometimes I realize after ive done it... but they are cunning...

I agree glen, that happens to me to. but as for the falling four a best friend not so much. but i do have a gf, and she works at the same place i do and she can get me to do many things i would say do it your self to most people.

Ok I found this on the internet.

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We always hear “the rules” from the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! Please note… these are all numbered “1″ ON PURPOSE!

1. Sunday sports. It’s like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.

1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way.

1. Crying is blackmail.

1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!

1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That’s what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.

1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 days.

1. Breasts are for looking at and that is why we do it. Don't try to change that.

1. If you won’t dress like the Victoria’s Secret girls, don’t expect us to act like soap opera guys.

1. If you think you’re fat, you probably are. Don’t ask us.

1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.

1. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

1. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.

1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You’re a big girl. If it’s up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don’t hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

1. Christopher Columbus did not need directions and neither do we.

1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not a color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.

1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.

1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing", we will act like nothing’s wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

1. If you ask a question you don’t want an answer to, expect an answer you don’t want to hear.

1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine… Really.

1. Don’t ask us what we’re thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as sex, sports, or cars.

1. You have enough clothes.

1. You have too many shoes.

1. I am in shape. Round is a shape.

1. Thank you for reading this. Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight; but did you know men really don’t mind that? It’s like camping.

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Yeah... I have no comments..

That's true lol...... most of the time

hahah thats funny

I got the same problem as Glenwing, except my best friends asked me out first, and I said no because I didn't want to ruin a fantastic friendship, but now I think I love him too I've just decided to wait and see if I get over it.

You wont ruin a friendship with a relationship, but you will with a harse breakup and being pissed at the person after. idk think about it, and stuff

I agree w/Gino, take it from someone whose had to deal w/it. As long as its a "Lets still be friends" break up, you guys have it made

well, my relationship life is pretty simple unlike all of yours. I liek a guy 2 years older then me who is also my hockey caoch. The bad bit is, from this day on he will hate me, (and I know this) because today i am supposed to go to this hockey thing and only today i found out i cant go and its today and i told him i would come. ah crud, I just realised how screwed my love life is.

Well, no offence but around this age, guys normally want to go out with girls roughly the same age as them. It really sucks, I know. It's at like, 18 when they start wanting to go out with younger girls usually, when they finally stop being so immature lol. But missing one practice surely can't screw it up for you? And if he's mad cos you missed it once, he's not worth it

hi everybody, i have a date to homecomeing!!!!!!! the guy finaly caved in while i was at the football game with him friday.

i went to a game to. but my homecoming isnt for awhile.

our fall festival is coming up but I was queen last year

heh, i was never popular enough to win that kind of thing.

I am anything but popular each class has a queen and king my class has 8girls and 5boys

Lucky, my class is all girls

My Class is all guys......I'm homeschooled and i'm a guy.... lol

heh, i pity you, are they always laughing and giggling?

Boy... isn't this interesting

how very rude. If you all you can come out with is sarcasm... lol, jk

And um... homecoming? What's that?

its a big dance... followed by a football game (american football)

surely you heard of these things? Im always having to change things to accomadate yankies...like our school system and money and stuff. I have t change to dollars and to grades for them to be happy =\

Hey bud! Admin er not I'm a northerner by birth and belief or as you said a 'yankey'

I dont think yankie is a bad name I am from the south

Some of my family is from Texas

cool

I'm homeschooled too! yeah another homeschooler! we smart!!

If you say so, I'm a homeschoole graduate and I don't feel very smart

W00t!!!!! HOMESCHOOLERS FOREVER!! I cant figure out the binary system in math tho.....

heh well yanky is a funny term I say... refering to all you american yankies!

lol, yankys. Ok, if you're all yankies I can be... hmm... what about limey?



well, I've changed my year to grade, so I must be in grade 9 now, which here is year 10. And I'm learning, so shush... If you don't ask you will never know.

And for the topic- I got asked out twice yesterday, which is weird because nobody ever used to fancy me (I guess for americans, that gonna be "like") so yeah...

Yea... um if your 14, 15ish (which i think you are right?) then your most likely in 9th grade, but anyways what did you say to the 2 people firetounge?

I said no, cos they are close friends again, and it would be weird.

WHY DO GUYS HAVE TO BE SO DUMB!?!?!?!?!?

Don't shouting! It is not polite and can be considered offensive. Edit your post fast or I'll delete them



Firetongue darling,, why would ppl not "like" you?? Except that you are so much of secrecy (like keeping your real name and e-mail address) and sometimes bossy, nosey and ambitious,
but you're smart, a great pal and you're 100% sane and you have a group of close friends who loves you so.. why would anyone don't like you !


Hmm...

Girls not always like the guy who liked her, but they do like the facts that they are liked.. aren't we..

wow- thanks, that's really nice I'm happy now And yeah, it's nice to know you're liked.

dont yell at me ........im not in to good a mood , and when that happens and someone decides to get lippy with me .....i cant control what i do when im angry :and that makes me even angrier ........

calm down no one is yelling at u anymore, and who did in the first place is beyond me but pleaz calm down

sry , i told you, bad things happen when i get angry , and i dont like people yelling at me or repremanding me for accidents . i didnt mean to loose my temper on anyone .

thats okay, back on topic,


yesterday in lunch i was sitting with my friends when i looked around the cafeteria and spotted a guy staring at me with a dreamy look on his face, it creeped me out, so i asked my friend to look and see if he realy was and she confirmed he was, when I looked at him he noticed and looked away embarased

im not dumb...am I?

I dont think your dumb! a little wierd but not dumb!!! j/k bout the wierd thing lot

I have a right to "yell" at you. And I didn't even use some caps lock like you did to yell at other people. And I only use one instead of

I'm a moderator and I'm here to forcing the rules. You better listen to me coz' you know that I don't have personal problem with you I'm going to do the same thing with other people too so as Louis Firetongue Anniebee and other mods/admins they only enforce the rules to the members.

I hope I make myself clear. And Do Not try to flaming a mod again.

fathskie and dragon lover at hear lets not have a fight pleaz i know u two dont want one

1 I had a gf for like a 3 months then we stoped seeing eachothers but I still have a crush on her

awww lol. Does she still like you?

I dont knowh she had to moow to Danmark but she did

its ok that happens a lot dont stop talking to her b/c then she will think you dont like her as long as shes not like my friend and has a lot of ppl crushing on her you should still have a chance just dont give up.

ugh! i have bad taste in guys.......

im going solo. i figure that now is not the time for relationships.

if i were u id just ignor everything and everyone around u except friends there the only good thing to come out of this world

Not all the time piper....not always. Alot of "friends" may not be your friends, some ppl might wnat your.....food for example. Or money or items..like a skateboard, etc.

fronzz, u sound like ur speaking from experence. pray tell all!

thet is right like I have 1 guy as a friend and he was ok but 1 day he started trying to make me steeling from cars and stuff

If every1 stopped worring about relationships you could end up in a really good one by accident instead of chasing ppl when the person your not looking at could be perfect for you

HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY


It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48... be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:

51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:

54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes



HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY

1. Show up naked
2. Bring food