I know its happened to me to many time
I want nothing more to do with Relationships if this is how they all turn out
******* it!!!!!

Edited by AnnieBee 04/06/08

Relationships in school never last; some last close to the end of grade 12, but not much else.

Ah hell I feel like an arss. This all started when an ex called me. She was one of the one that I had been friends with but after she got well torn apart by an arss I did what I could to get her back on her feet. We didn't talk after that though. No just out of no where she called me and wanted me to do the samething again. P*ssed me off.
I love the fact that I am able to stay friends with most of my ex'es but I hate it when the ones Im not on the best of terms with turn to me after so long.
But Im a pushover and helped anyway. Well as much as I could from 900 miles away that is.
And I know y'all are right im young, and most of what I said was out of anger for this girl so yeah. lol
Anyhow.......

Annie the problem is I live where I have no friend that true good friend who I can count on. Wait I have one, 1! This is why I hate the city (no offence to those who live in cities) when ever I am in a city I am taken advatage of and left behind in rough times. That was never a problem in my old small town.

Then me as a "compassionate" person, is always called upon to solve problems of people I don't even know sometimes. Its really getting on my nerves.
I hear this from my so called "Friends" all the time, "Ryan come hang out with me at my Girl friends house, but I need a ride." Take that person there and I end up leaving cause I don't like being ignored.
When I moved I LEFT my true friend behind and now we aren't nearly as good of friend as we once were.

As for the dating part yes I'm probably backing out of that for a while.

Thanks Annie
oh and sorry about the need for an edit, just frustrated and mad

LOL
I have more girls who are friends then guys...so yeah
but thanks y'all...

yeah it sucks when u or ur friends move..
my best friend moved to colorado and then she made now "popular friends", so now im not cool enough for her...
i have no friends @ school that i can trust to not spread rumors about me behind my back since i go to a really preppy school (my one friend from church calls it the "shiny" school) and thats not me at all.

i need relationship help. gah. i met this guy online who lives in a town next to mine. our towns are arch enemies. anyway. the guy is really sweet and funny, and he's goodlooking. but the problem is he's ten years older than me. he's of the attitude "age is just a number" and i dont mind it that he's so much older, but im worried about how my friends and family will react. i dont know what to do. i told him off the bat that there will be no sex, and he has no problem with that. i need advice. do i get a relationship with him or just stay friends?

dude, ima say to you something every girl should hold in her pocket when it comes time to make a choice like yours. which is more important? The guy or the girl? I know it sounds harsh but thats what it comes down to. Never let a guy come between you and your friend. It will tear your friendship apart. I know because thats what im going through right now. a guy nearly destroied my friendship with my best friend FOUR TIMES. tell your friend, she needs to know. and if she reacts badly to you for telling the truth, thats her problem. at least she knows. Do your duty to her as a friend and tell her. i hope it all works out for you.

@Firetongue-(if it's still an issue)My opinion concurs with Valkrayie's. If he's doing this to his present girlfriend, there's the chance he'll do the same to you. Or to someone else like you said.
@Arya
Well you could look him up on a social networking site if you had one, but other than that it's hard. I have been in the same situation as you(different genders lol) and I gave up. Not terribly optimistic, but there's not much you can do if you cant find them on the internet or run into them.

I need help. There's this guy i dated for the better part of the year, and i thought i was in love with him. Except that towards the end i started havign doubts, and i got annoyed with him more often than not, and i began looking around at other guys. So i told him about this and eventually it became so that we decided to just be friends for a while and see how it would end up. Now the guy claimed he loved me more than life itself, and i believed him. He said he'd wait for me for as long as it took for me to get over my doubts. So i went off and did my thing, and we kept talking and all that. Except one day, like, two months later, i tell him about this guy i met that i think i had a crush on. He right away told me to go for it. that he understood and supported my decsion. SO i think, well ok then, and i go and look into it. Except the guy was already hooked by this OTHER girl. So im crushed. I end up going back to my ex thinking we could just pick up where we left off, but lo and behold! He's telling me about this girl he knows. How things just sort of clicked for them. How he's getting involved with her. SO im thinking "Well crud, now what do i do?" so i tell him great and to go for it as well. This happened two days after we ended.
Now here's my problem. I discovered quite by accident that i really am still in love with him. How did this happen you ask? Well i found out after he described to me his first sexual interaction with this girl he just started dating. I couldnt even finish reading the Email. I started hyperventilating and ended up crouched on the floor by my bed trying to form a coherent thought.

my problem is this: If i keep in touch with him moving on will be very hard, but i dont want to stop talking to him. I know i should move on, but i just cant. What in God's name am i going to do?????

why do you think this?

Well first you should ask him about it (something that a lot of people forget to do sadly) because she could just be someone out to hurt you

how do you know it's true if he denied it?

Holy Crap!

This may be the most complicated situation yet!

Ok so normal story, un popular guy like popular girl yada-yada-ya. I start sending secret messages as I can't talk to her. She's really exited. It goes for a day and she tells her freinds that it's creepy with a grin. So far so good hey? She keeps wondering who I am. Next day I reveal pretty much who I am. Between two people. Leave one final note and its the weekend. Come back Monday sending a note that gives me up, she finds it, she walks out of the room. Great right? She knows who I am.


.......

Minutes later I get called to the office........ WHAT THE HECK!

Turns out that some IDIOT put a flipping condom on my last Friday letter and she freaked out told her mom who told the office. Now she things I'm sort of a stalker or something.

Now what? It's pretty much over now I guess.

Better off without her...girls suck.

I was excited to land myself a girlfriend here at college, a nice adult girl with a head on her shoulders.

Yeah...she left me after 5 amazing months because "I can't help it...but I don't feel as into it as I used too"

4 days for a relationship to deteriorate, darn girls

Well im not the guy who gives good advice but what if you tell him how you feel about him and that you don't want to lose him?

Nate, you know as well as I that all women aren't like that. =] They're just as varied as we are.

I walked into that, didn't I? =P Yeah, I'm as surprised as you are, but I have discovered some males that do not exhibit typical male tendencies. There's at least 3 that I've met. xD

So you're telling me I have at least a 3/the whole world chance of finding a varied woman

Not one encounter...this is the second time this happened.

Lol...I guess i'm just angry because I didn't get a good reason. I thought things were great, then all of a sudden when we were together she seemed out of it. Then "we need to talk" followed by her telling me she doesn't know why, but she just doesn't feel the same with me as she used too. And it stinks, because i'm a great guy...but I deserve someone who still feels emotion for me.

We went from a picture perfect couple, to broken up in a matter of days.

I thought she had a good head on her shoulder. I see what you're saying though, there are good ones out there. My time will come.

That's what I was saying as well, just making a little joke about guys in general.
That's the right attitude... don't give up. My mum always told me that 'nice guys' turn out best in the end, and I have witnessed that she's right.

But yeah, same thing happened to me a long time ago. Would have been nice to know exactly what was wrong. :/ Ah well.. when I looked back in retrospect, if she couldn't 'man up' and say what was on her mind, it probably wasn't great anyway. :/

ever wonder why we always end up picking that one relationship that just won't work out? I do that. and it bugs me to the extreme. everytime i really like a guy he lives too far away for it to work out.