I just thought we could make a section where if you needed advice on anything, you could post here and some nice Person could come and help you! (Idea taken from stained sword.)

Well, sorry for double posting, but I need some help:
I'm 13, and I asked this girl out last April. She said yes, and things have gone real well, there's just these tiny little problem: WE CAN'T TELL ANYONE! She only told like 2 of her closest friends, and I only told some friends that live far away. Her parents can never find out cause they would never let us go out and would hate me (90% chance), and, one of my best friends has the hugest crush on her and would hate me for going out with her. This is tough. What should I do? Continue on like this for a while, or do something?

Maybe you should break it to you/her parents gently and if her parents dont approve {respectfully} ask them why?

That's good... Really good. Thanks. G2G, its ten o' clock and im tired, cya.

OOOOH!!! i got a better idea. make it seem like ur her friend, just plain friend, and if they are ok with that, then they will probably be ok with u being her boyfriend

Why not just tell the that they're going out anyways? Its more of a lie if he did that

We're already just plain friends in everyone else's eyes

DUDE! that's heavy! wow.... well i agree. you should tell. and if he hates you, there's' always another person out there who understands what ur goin through. Like me!

He's really not what i'm most worried 'bout, it's her parents. scary

ok well all i can tell u is that if u keep it from ur friend hes deffinetly going to hate u cause it hurts more 2 keep somthing like that a secret then it does 2 be forword just teel ur friend ur going out with her and if he hates u and never talks 2 u again hes not a real good friend and if he dosnt talk 2 u for a few days then he was just hurt and needed some time alone as for her parents well if u keep it a secret they deffinetly wont let u go out with her. so tell them calmly and if they dont like it keep... dateing anyway! IF U LOVE HER that is

ok srry but i need advise 2 how do deal with a freind who hates u just because u were watching some kids (outside ur popularity group)play a card game? yeah its stupid but then again she was pissed 2 begin with. and i dont want 2 loose her friendship.

if you really like her, then her parents shouldn't matter. just explain the connection you guyzes have.

Believe me, her parents can do anything, no i guess you guys are right, but ya know, its fine for now, i think she should just ask them if she can start going out with guys, and then if they say yes, or only respectable ones, 5 min. later we're good to go.

As for you piper, what kind of friend is like that? Kind of wierd if you ask me, but tell her to chill out and you were just watching a card game.

Just proves me right. Social groups are stupid. Either someone is your friend or not. If your friend hates you because you were watching someone else, that's the stupidest thisng I've ever heard and your friend is not a good one.

wtf(scuze my language) is a popularity group???

u mean sumthing like labels??? labels suck,man.....i dont have a label....even thought i hang out with like a group of ppl its not a label because....we dont have labels lol...but this isnt about me...

ne way...if ur friend is such a jerk to interrogate u just for watching a card game...i think u should just be like i was WATCHING it!" even if ur playing the dam game she shouldn't care!