That is sweet Firetongue.

My first boyfriend was at 13, it was kinda like love at first site! So he asked me out like a week or two after we met each other and we lasted for 3 months, we were so happy together My second boyfriend is the one im with now and this relationship has been going on for 5 months, i really love him and hope its lasts alot longer Concerning relationships and everything, i only agree to go out with a guy if i really like him and know he's not just asking because he just wants a gf. If im in a relationship it usually lasts for awhile {like you read above }, im not into the "one week im with him and the next im with someone else" kinda relationships *shrugs*

i hate those typs of ppl

re: to the guys forum, we do not all think that about u so dont say we do and u are steriotyping us by saying that and I find that offensive so when u say that dont say all for u would be wrong if u did

OK to the Guys in the guy only forum:
We don't fit u all into a stereotype! The reason most girls think guys are perverts is cuz thats what some of you act like! If you all don't want us to think ur perverts don't act like ones.
Yes, there are ecseptions but they don't come around very often. B nice to a gal and treat her with some respect! Just because someone has a stereotype of you dosen't mean that U have 2 fit it!
Hayden- if u read this, I guess u were probably refering to me when you said that you think it's wrong for a guy to think of every girl he dates as a future wife. I am not going to think of every guy I date as a future husband. I said I'm am going to to be LOOKING for a future husband. OK?

omigawd that is like totally true i hate guys who are perverts

Re: I appologize to all guys who feel offended with my statement "girls are 3 times more mature than boys" I correct my previous statement, it should be "a maturity level of a girl usually 3 years above boys on their (kid or teen) age." that's what my pyshcology teacher told us when I was in high school and it's probably true and probably false.

Men are from Mars and women are from Venus,, so we really have different way of thinking. Like... (according to my 26 yearsold husband), what men look first at a woman is her face and (pardon) her breast, or her hair and buttocks if they look from behind. That's inevitable and without bad intention at all, it's just happen instinctively.

"In a sample of college students, researchers found that men fantasized or thought about sex 7.2 times a day, compared to 4.5 for women. For each sex, two of those fantasies were internally triggered. But men reported twice as many externally provoked thoughts." (health.msn)

According to the article above,, it does can be generalized by each gender. But it is unadvised and not wise to point at particular person either man or woman and say either they are perverted or not, before we get to know them, coz there's always be some exceptions.

i dont know much about guys in general.IM in an all girls school.I guess they are kind of irritatating at times.(no offense meant).i guess it wiil be sort of cool to have a BF.BUT i dont wanna have one now.

I can't believe we're having this argument! Some guys are complete jerks, some girls are complete jerks, you can't generalise. I actually have more guy friends than girl friends, sure, some of them are immature, but then again so are some girls I know! That can infact be the best thing about guys as friends- they can have a laugh and not care what people think. Girls ask guys out, guys ask girls out. Girls dump guys, guys dump girls- it's all the SAME! Who cares abou thte marriage thing? You want to look for a future husband/wife? You do that! You want a bit of fun? You do that too- people can't tell you what to think, or what half the people in the world (one gender) are like.

so true about ppl being such jerks iknow loads of ppl like that

They only do it because they simply want attenision

Gino, this is girls only! I take it you're a girl then... haha you girl.

lol i hate prepy ppl dont u

OK, just wanna say sorry about the whole arguement thing, I think it just got blown outta proporsion.
sorry

You know whats really sweet? When a guy takes you out to a lake side resteraunt and you eat by candle light, while looking out over the lake where you can see the full moons reflection and then he takes you for a walk in the park and you walk hand in hand and then he takes you home and leaves you with a kiss on the cheeck {if on the 1st date} *sigh*

caterpillar!!!!!!!!!!! That is soooooooooooo romantic!!!!!!!!!!!

Wow how romantic! Myfirst date was notthing comprad to that

That wasn't my first date . . i havn't even been on a real date, lol, i was just thinking about what would be really sweet on a first date, cuz Valk said somthing about how the Girls Only topic needs to catch up with the guys

I don't remember my first date... (can't recall which was the first)

But I remember my 'greatest' date with a guy friend Well on the date day we met at a bookstore (anything but romantic) and he park his motorbike there while we walk 2 blocks to get into a restaurant for dinner (the restaurant is full with friends and family gathering. It was crowded but luckily we got a nice spot) And then we walk again, (I remember we took a really looong walk for half an hour or so!) across the city. We got back to the bookstore and get his bike, and we went to another cafe' at the hills. This one is very quiet and we had a proper candle light dinner. Afterwards, on our way home we took a short visit to a house of his friend, a YOGA master and the owner of a yoga school! lol and he was a strange one too!

And then he drove me home (of course), and that's all ^^ but I was really happy that day.

Oh ,, he wasn't my boyfriend and never been one, even though we enjoyed the date but that's the first and the last time we go out ^^

That's so sweet....

I never was on a date. In fact, I haven't fell in love (one crush, biggest achivment: on last day I hugged him. Through summer I totaly forgot on him, so I don't count it). Well, someday my turn will be too....and I hope that the boy that will take me on a date will have green eyes (I kinda love green eyes) and will be nice. Simple wishes.....*sigh*

Well, this really tall friend of mine gave me such a hard high-5 the other day it made my hand sting- I think he likes me lol

Im sad. One of my guy friends hasn't talked to me in 3 days, i mean he'll say "hi" or somthing little like that but nothing more and i havn't done anything to make him mad at me . . . . . do you guys have any idea why he hasn't been talking to me?

Maybe he likes you? Guys can do weird things like that sometimes...

Yeah, maybe he likes you. Or he is just being weird.

OK, What is your PERFECT guy? Everyone has a different Prince Charming, just for them. What is yours?
I don't really have a type, Except I want him to be TALL. Really tall, like 6" or something.
It wouldn't hurt if he was good looking though.

I prefer to look for personality, hygiene is the only physical factor I need confirmed lol.

But, if I were to be picky, I would say at least 20cm taller than me, black hair, same taste in music, talks easily (not too shy, but not a show off), no spots, friendly and so on. But like I say, normally looks don't bother me.

I already have my perfect guy well, maybe not perfect but who wants perfect?


ps.
Hey valk, we have as many pages as the guys now!

Wyrda-yeaaaaahhhhh!!!!!!! LOL

Firetoungue-I don't really look that much at physical appearances either.
As long as the guy dosen't:
1: stink
2: have like, hillbilly teeth
3: act like a jerk or @$$ lol

Instead of telling me your "type", descibe your "perfect man" in 6 sentences or less.

Mine:
1: I want a guy who can make me laugh even when I'm blue
2: A guy who encourages me
3: A guy that is good with kids
4: a Christian
5: TALL
6: someone I can talk to

has the same religion; handsome; hard worker; understand me; never cheat (with another girl); a great cook; loves cleaning; helpful and reliable; honest; forgiver; loves children; has a sweet smile; smarter than me; can make me laugh; can be serious, can be fun; simply put, the one in a million ^.^

hmm- ok, perfect guy in 6 points would be:

1) tall
2) funny
3) thoughtful
4) helpful
5) clever
6) any religion, I don't care what they believe

ok um... perfect guy

1)funny
2)nice
3)tall
4)wont cheat(with another girl or guy)
5)my age
6)happy

lol

lol

perfect guy

(1) fun to be around
(2) not afraid to argue with me
(3) has to be tall because I am tall
(4) has a great attitude
(5) loves me, and dosent judgeLOl
I mean they have to be tall because I am five eight

lol the perfect guy shouldnt be a gay

I thought 'argetlam' name is identical with guys... haven't thought it also can be use by girls

I think my perfect guy would be:
1. Has to be funny
2. Has Attitude
3. Isn't afriad to say what he is feeling
4. Tall cause im kinda tall(everyone says i am anyway)
5. Does'nt make fun of people
6. ....Oh yeah has to be really nice to.(lol)

i need tips to get this guy to notice i like him or I might yell it at him, He is totaly clueless, I mean its not like I dont see him staring at me like twenty four seven.

mine would be this

1 nice
2 is nice to my bffs
3 tall [witch a lot of gus at my school arnt]
4 my age
5 funny
6 and actually likes me for me

mine:

1) willing to argue with me over random things
2) a good sense of humor/can take a joke
3) good looking
4) gets along with my friends/family
5) loves me for who i am
6) faithful/loyal (AKA wont cheat on me)

in other words - this certain guy at me school

Me and my friend rekon you should be yourself and talk to him but dnt change who u are or nothing.

Do you have a friend that is friends w/him (probable a girl) they have to be really close and you have to trust them if so have them talk to him but tell her not to tell him you asked her or anything b/c that could be weird have her find out if likes you at all and have her talk about you a lot but not to much then he might get annoyed. If he dosent like you he dosnt deserve you. Even though you'll probably still like him i've been through it. Make sure your friend dose not say this came from you!!!!

thats a good idia
i cant realy help so just try to be nice

I like to help i've had to do stuff like that a lot. and i've also had my friends help me

Oh yeah, another thing I REALLY look for in a guy, is when he opens the door for ANY female.
Be it me, an old lady or a little girl.

i know it makes them look so sweet

I just think it's respectfull

Re to the guys forum:
Ask her mum if it's ok b4 you ask her out. You'll gain respect with her mom and her.
and if she still says no, don't get mad. Either wait and try to act better or move on.

I know I'm double posting but here is a pic of one of my kitties:

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lmao off topic - but sooooo cute!

heres one of mine - this was like 6 years ago - now hes fat lol

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caterpillar they are sooo cute

Nice cats, they're pretty cool looking.

Scarecrow arn't you a guy?? this is for girls lol

yeah, does "girls only" mean anything to you Scarecrow?

Girls post in our sometimes so why can't I come here if ya'll go over there?

What do you mean? Guys always post here, so Stargazer did it once, and now you're using it as an excuse to post here! Don't do it again please.

i think its cuz he's bord and no guys are talking to him

tralalallalalalala *dances* how is everyone doing?

I'm in such a bad mood today. Just thought I'd randomly tell everyone that.

whats wrong?

ugh- a couple of my friends were just calling everyone stupid names (like as a joke) but I was already in a bit of an angry mood because of loads of little things piling on top of each other over the week, so I just over-reacted really and came straight home instead of going to town with everyone like I was going to.

would a hug from a random person on SF (me lol) help anything?

yay hug! lol thanks. oh well, how are you anyway?

*hug* lol

im good - i had like 10 mountain dews last nite - was up til 5 - fell asleep - woke up at seven b'cuz mr and mrs smith was playing - and im not even tired! woot!

wow lol- fun. Wish I knew where they sold mt. dew... oh yeah- nowhere lol

GASP! YOU DONT HAVE MD OVER THERE?!?!?!?!?!

Not that I know of. I've never seen it anyway. Usually everyone just gets "kick" or "red bull" for being hyper.

thats horrible! i dotn kno how id be able to live without it... but at least u have red bull and "kick" (whatever that is)

do u have monster?

ehhh... I dunno. Don't think I've seen it.

Umm.. what is mountain dews ? translate please!

It's a drink Apparently.

its pop - its loaded with sugar and caffine and its totally bad for you but everyone (well, most everyone) loves it!

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what about coke do u have coke there im like addticed 2 it i cant live w/o it lol

i perfer dr.pepper

oo i like that 2 wen i wuz lil i used 2 drink nothing but that lol

Yeah- gotta love coke! Especially the vanilla flavoured one. yum...

i cant drink the sodas with like vanilla or weird flavors mixed in i can hardly stand vault

i never had vault but i dont think ill try it
i love root beer

root beer is okay
we need a diff subject plz

ehhh... is root beer like ginger beer?

I don't like soda at all, I prefere water or homemade lemonade.

u dont like soda why
i have no clu firetounge

Soda is ok, I don't drink alot of it, but it's ok.

umm girls only

& i love soda i cant live w/o it i didnt even notice i dank that much soda untill a couple yrs ago wen my health teacher made a bet w/ us he wuz like if dont drink ne soda 4 a week then u wont have 2 take sum test but of course we all lost the bet

i could so go without pop for a week! lol it wouldnt be easy but if it was that or a test - i could totally win! lol

i cant i have it @ least once every3days

how do u mean?

like the longest i usualy go w/o drinking soda is about 3 days

o ok - that makes sense now lol

lol

haha, I gave it up for lent once- 40 days! I also gave chocolate up for lent once, I managed it, but it was hard! lol

i tried, i faild, misrably so im gonna try to not lie as much

i nvr giv nething up 4 lent cuz every time i try i fail lol

ya same here
i am soo confused i like this guy billy but i have not clue if he likes me

that happens 2 me all the time last yr i rlllllly liked my best friend but i could nvr tell if he liked me bak & wen ithought he did he would cum 2 me & sey hey guess wut i like so & so

i feel really sorry for u! i hade something like that happen... ended up being my two best friends going out!

the guy I like and me are friends kinda and one day he came up and asked if i could help him get a girl that I hated, and caterpillar if we flirted anymore the whole school would know i liked him and he mabe liked me.

lol... aw thats anoying.
its really awful that u cant tell if they like u!

MESSAGE TO ANY GUYS READING - IF U LIKE A GIRL JUST TELL HER! it makes it alot easier for us OK!

yes its like realy confusing

Try falling for a guy (really good friend) who is going out with a girl you're kiiinda friendly with..

Its not fun. Haha

no i dont supose it would be....

I really haven't experienced it bad enough to make me feel bad.

Scarecrow, next time you post in the GIRLS ONLY topic- you're getting a warning, ok?