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princessArya
Master DragonRider
Joined: August 7th, 2006, 8:09 pm
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 Re: If ur mad @ a friend/family member come here I get mad at my sister all the time. If i could i would love to have a fair fight with her with out her telling on me however she wont agree to it she is scared.
I was in tears today and locked myself in the bathroom with my computer and just cried i am so mad at everyone in my family right now.
My mom calls me fat she says shes just kidding but yesterday her friend was over and she said something about me wearing a size zero and my mom gave me a dirty look looked at her friend and shook her head no i was like no i wear a size 3 or 4.
And yesterday i was having an early xmas with a couple of my friend and my bf and i had them come over and i wanted to wear something cute so i put on a skirt it was almost to my knees and i go out to ask my brother and sister if it looked good with the shirt i was wearing and they were like why are you wearing a skirt in the house that is weird blah blah and my brother said i looked like a slut so i changed into pants.
My sister has to tell my business to everyone and shes always mean people i dont talk to know about personal stuff. I know i make a lot of bad choices and i deal with them but my family is suppose to but supportive yet they cant keep from running their mouth about me to everyone and making me feel horrible.
today i was seriously considering leaving my house i mean i know i have so much going for me here i dont have to pay rent or buy my own food. But i was considering with all that in mind of leaving i would stay in school and i know it would be hard but i think it would be much better than sacrificing my happiness. i ask them not to talk about me i tell them how much it hurts and yet they keep at it with obvious disregard of my feelings. I dont know what to do anymore.
Im not the best person in the world and i constantly make mistakes but isnt my family supposed to be there for me? should they not defend me? i would defend them with my life and do what i could to make them happy and yet i dont get the same in return.
And my step dad does nothing about this yet if i say one thing even if it moderate and not bad he jumps on me.
My real dad i HATE and reuse to ever see again for other reasons hes not a good person.
Maybe its me i dont know but my family life right now is not working.
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| December 24th, 2008, 3:41 am |
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Australianrockstar
Peasant Elder
Joined: October 14th, 2008, 10:06 pm
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Re: If ur mad @ a friend/family member come here princessarya i'm sorry i'm not really good at giving advice but here's one thing that i do and i'll tell you why.just give your mom dirty looks back ... heh heh...it works.
you see i used to be really really nice to every single person in school...
i'd say sorry for things i thought i did but never did.i held doors open for EVERYBODY.i always said please and thank you. i'd let people abuse me and such and i'd NEVER say a word.
then one day i had it. people always talked about me behind my back they'd make fun of me....they'd ask me sarcastic questions about my last name just to make fun of me ..blah blah blah. that day i started standing up for myself. i gave EVERY person dirty looks. when the mean people passed me i pushed them. i went through the halls on purpose just to push people who passed me.and every single person who was mean to me i give them dirty looks when they pass me and i keep my eyes on them . they all look at me like "what did i do?" .
so it's worked. so try ignoring your family...i'm sorry again.hope it all works
PS. one more thing.i don't wanna offend anyone or anything but i think i have the worst family life! i have a dysfunctional family and i have a million stories beacause........my mom is mentally and physically ill. it doesnt' sound that bad but it is.
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| December 24th, 2008, 4:06 am |
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princessArya
Master DragonRider
Joined: August 7th, 2006, 8:09 pm
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Re: If ur mad @ a friend/family member come here haha thats funny i would get jumped if i did that at my school and my mom will get tired of it either hit me or ground me so im not so sure if its the best solution but thats what i was doing all today actually i would just ignore everything she asked and said and i sat and glared at her but shes oblivious and either didnt notice or didnt care enough to ask why i was upset.
And i know i dont have the worst family life i just dont have the best
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Life in Death has won my soul, Thus I am cursed for all eternity to relive this horrible moment forever.
I want to experience something new, I am tired of living in this box I call my life.
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| December 24th, 2008, 4:17 am |
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redshurtugal08
Black Dragon
Joined: March 26th, 2007, 2:06 am
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Location: the net of love, the whirlwind of passion, the heat of a soccer game, or partying.
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Re: If ur mad @ a friend/family member come here whoa, that's just creepy. exactly the same thing is happening to me right now except it's only with my mom. my little sis is too little to understand anything and my dad... well he usually tells me and my mom to stop fighting and gives me advice, so he's cool, but my mom... she makes me so mad! she always insults me and gets mad at me for the stupidest reasons and talks crap about me to other people. I'm seriously pissed at her and it's starting to become unbearable. on monday I was mopping the floor for her(which was rather useless as she had told me to do it the day before too, but for some reason whenever she sees me doing something that's not a chore she gets all mad and calls me lazy even though I never refuse to do anything for her and always do all my chores and everything. so I was mopping the floor and I do one mistake and she gets all mad at me and says I'm doing the work against my will and that she's tired of me and I start to protest but then just say, forget it, because I know she'll never listen to me because every time we have an argument no matter how much sense I make I can never be right, then after I say forget it she says "what do you mean forget it you're doing this and blah blah blah insults come and everything and she asks me why I was doing that and I got mad and said because I wanted to, and she slapped my mouth and took the mop from me and I went outside, not even feeling the cold, all boiling mad and I actually start to cry... at that moment I started to think too about leaving the house and still going to school and everything but just not living with my parents no more, and I seriously considered it too, I was trying to plan everything out so it worked, but I didn't do it... *sigh*
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Kasimes_little_fishy
New DragonRider
Joined: July 8th, 2007, 1:01 am
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Re: If ur mad @ a friend/family member come here I kinda feel like i do all the work in the house b/c ME!! and my dad had to take apart his hundred pound tool box that is HUGE!!!! so I had to take all the tools out and carry the pull out the rows of the pull out shelfs all the way down staires and run back and fourth for 2 hours!!!!!!!!!! i cut my hand and it is deep!!!!and its right across the middle of my hand!!!****
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| December 24th, 2008, 4:41 am |
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princessArya
Master DragonRider
Joined: August 7th, 2006, 8:09 pm
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Re: If ur mad @ a friend/family member come here Same here and i had a really good plan but my mom would make the cops come get me and then it wouldnt be good bc whoever i ended up staying with would get in trouble and i cant do that to someone else its not fair to them. Whenever i clean and its not more chore and im just trying to be nice my mom always thinks i want something instead of saying thank you
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Life in Death has won my soul, Thus I am cursed for all eternity to relive this horrible moment forever.
I want to experience something new, I am tired of living in this box I call my life.
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| December 24th, 2008, 4:44 am |
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redshurtugal08
Black Dragon
Joined: March 26th, 2007, 2:06 am
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Re: If ur mad @ a friend/family member come here yeah, I know what you mean. I would have loved to run away from the cops lol, but I didn't want to get into too many problems yet, and then christmas was near, so I decided to just leave everything at peace...
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| December 24th, 2008, 4:47 am |
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Kasimes_little_fishy
New DragonRider
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Re: If ur mad @ a friend/family member come here i dont get chased by the cops but i do the work b/c i want too which is weird but thats how i was raised lol
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| December 24th, 2008, 4:50 am |
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princessArya
Master DragonRider
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Re: If ur mad @ a friend/family member come here yeahh same i have enough problems and knowing my mom she would have them take me to juve for it
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Life in Death has won my soul, Thus I am cursed for all eternity to relive this horrible moment forever.
I want to experience something new, I am tired of living in this box I call my life.
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Kasimes_little_fishy
New DragonRider
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Re: If ur mad @ a friend/family member come here how old are you any way? im only 13
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| December 24th, 2008, 5:07 am |
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princessArya
Master DragonRider
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Re: If ur mad @ a friend/family member come here me? I'm only 16.
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Life in Death has won my soul, Thus I am cursed for all eternity to relive this horrible moment forever.
I want to experience something new, I am tired of living in this box I call my life.
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| December 24th, 2008, 5:12 am |
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redshurtugal08
Black Dragon
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Re: If ur mad @ a friend/family member come here I'm 14, gonna be 15 soon...
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| December 24th, 2008, 5:21 am |
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Kasimes_little_fishy
New DragonRider
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Re: If ur mad @ a friend/family member come here great now i feel the youngest!!! im going to be 14 in april!!!
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