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Wrath of the Gods
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Joined: April 10th, 2009, 12:52 pm Posts: 245 Location: Dublin,Ireland
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Instant Dislike - why does it happen?
You know when you meet someone for the first time and you know you don't like them? They haven't done anything to insult you, but there is something in the subconscious that tells you that you aren't supposed to like him. Has this happened to you?
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February 16th, 2010, 10:59 pm |
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Silverwolf
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Joined: April 9th, 2007, 10:48 am Posts: 9373
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Re: Instant Dislike - why does it happen?
Well, it's probably just something subconcious.
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February 16th, 2010, 11:00 pm |
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Makaveli
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Joined: June 13th, 2006, 7:47 pm Posts: 6039
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Re: Instant Dislike - why does it happen?
I suspect it has to do with how someone carries themselves. I have experienced it, and as well as I can recall it's because I perceived their body language as arrogant. Or, if first conversations count, a negative first impression because of similar attributes. Also if they use too many big words.
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February 17th, 2010, 12:16 am |
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gomenesigh
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Joined: December 6th, 2009, 1:55 am Posts: 2303 Location: Tx
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Re: Instant Dislike - why does it happen?
I actually learned about this in school and it is all about how you see them the very first time. Its all about how that person acts or carries themselves like kotor said. It takes like 7 or more more impressions of that person for you to think differently about that one first impression.
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February 17th, 2010, 3:45 am |
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solembumer
Wise DragonRider
Joined: February 20th, 2010, 5:15 am Posts: 1434 Location: With the Werecats, fulfilling my destiny (otherwise known as Mythic Paradise...)
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Re: Instant Dislike - why does it happen?
@ gomenesigh: that is true. i heard it while walking by a psychology class in high school, of all things.
i believe the facial expression is a big factor, too. or the way they react to an unorganized appearance. if they dislike unorganized, i pretty much dislike them. enough said. im too unorganized and most people instantly dislike me so i instantly dislike them...
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February 21st, 2010, 3:31 am |
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ruben-elda
Wise DragonRider
Joined: March 6th, 2009, 9:17 pm Posts: 1181
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Re: Instant Dislike - why does it happen?
it happened to me many times. most of the people i disliked proved to be nice guys or girls. but there are still others that i won't get anywhere near them.
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April 7th, 2010, 4:30 pm |
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solembumer
Wise DragonRider
Joined: February 20th, 2010, 5:15 am Posts: 1434 Location: With the Werecats, fulfilling my destiny (otherwise known as Mythic Paradise...)
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Re: Instant Dislike - why does it happen?
another factor is also mindset and mood at the time. If your really mad, you are less likely to like a new person than if you are in a good mood. Logically, this only works one way. If you are happy, meeting said person will change your mood entirely. Just saying.
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July 12th, 2010, 1:59 am |
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psy
Wise DragonRider
Joined: September 25th, 2008, 2:50 pm Posts: 1329
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Re: Instant Dislike - why does it happen?
It takes many impressions to negate the first.
And I can tell people are gonna argue and say they aren't like that, but it's true and there is no escaping it. It's a part of the human psyche. First impressions embed themselves.
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July 12th, 2010, 6:29 pm |
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Curfewdawn
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Joined: October 31st, 2009, 5:11 pm Posts: 1468
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Re: Instant Dislike - why does it happen?
For me it's just, if they're obnoxious, toilet tongued, or hold up their britches by sticking their hands down their wasteband, I don't like 'em at all.
Wooden Wolves, I'm more likely to fall in love with someone I've never even seen before than I am to even have an oppinion about someone I've only seen one time XP
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July 15th, 2010, 12:49 am |
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