If you do, or wish you do....
-give me one reason you like or even love her/him
-and tell me if you had to sacrifice on thing for her/him wat would it be
-and 1 last thing, wat is ur dream date (wat would you do on the dream date?)




Ill start
i lik my guy because he's sweet
i'd sacrifice my time
i would lik just for us to be able to open up and talk, but most of all have fun (maybe Cedar Point)

um... yea if this is wat you WOULD do if you had a guy/girl write "fantasy"

if u hav a a guy/girl friend write "realistic"

i love my bf cuz he is sweet, nice, caring, intelligent...
i sacrifice my thoughts energy, on cleaning and cooking and going to school so i can better myself and one day buy nice things for the both of us (including our wedding in like 4 years)
my dream date would have to contain us on the motorcycle, maybe somewhere we have not been yet like by the ocean or the mountains. us us taliking about our dream wedding and house that we want when we move down south (for good) and him telling me why he loves me so. and going out to dinner at a nice restaurant. (we usually get looked at funny if we have our harley gear on in a nice restaurant, which i think is funny) then going home and relaxing, me drinking some wine him beer and wathcing a movie together and falling asleep in each others arms.

i must say on saturday i got a new promise ring so i am so excited but i have to take it somewhere to get it sized though

what no one here has a bf or gf?? or they are just to shy??

thats what i thought, but whatever no big deal i guess right?!

right, i jus thot it'd be a good way to talk to each other i didn't realize people wouldn't reply

I'm so shy that I just can't reply

Well im not to afriad to talk about it.

I like/love my girl friend because she excepts me for who i really am and looks at me closely before judging me.

I would sacrafice anything nessacary for the time if i had to.

And a dream date is hopefully one i can make a reality this summer. I should hopefully get my license this year very soon and i hope to take my girl friend out to the Lake Michigan shore on a clear evening sky where the sky is a mix of orange, red, purple, and so on. We could walk the dunes then lay down and watch the sun go down, turning the waves to a shade of gold and then watching the moon come up giving the water a blue color and then heading home reminding each other once again of why we have come together and love each other.

okay, as of today, i'm single. the girls i've dated have only been half of what i was looking for (I'm not trying to sound arrogant, and i'm not one of those preppy types with high standards, but they haven't felt like the perfect match at all) so i guess mine's fantasy ^.^

I would love her because she would respect my need to be alone sometimes, she wouldn't cling to me all the time, she would be loyal, and intelligent enough for conversation to always be interesting.

If i had to sacrifice one thing for my girl(whoever that may be) it would be my life. i'm loyal to my girlfriends.

My perfect date would be a good movie, dinner by candlelight, and just staying home, spilling out worst fears and best memories, likes and dislikes, and just learning all i can about the girl.

Wow, I'm not alone >D Though I'm letting myself some time to know her better before going out with her. Worst thing is that I don't even know what I'm looking for and sometimes I just wait way too long


-I'd sacrifice my freedom and that means a lot to me.
-Perfect date will be on some nice place, where we will talk amd smile all the time and kiss at the end would be cool

thats sounds nice

to be honest, i have no clue what i want either. i don't really try to specify that stuff, i just go by feeling. *shrugs* its just the way i've always done things i guess.

thats good, as long as it dosent get u in trouble

How could that get you in trouble?

if he goes by feeling, well he might just feel lik a girls the right one to marry wen really shes not

I think meant about the characteristics. I wasn't aware that there was any other way to go about it, besides one's feelings.

oooohhhhh i c

What i meant was i try to make a connection with the girl, i want to feel like i know everything about her, yet never know what she's going to do next. it's hard to explain, really. especially when i haven't found her yet. again, i dont know exactly what i'm looking for. I'll find her when she finds me, i guess.

I know what you mean now, I feel the same way. Someone with a dynamic personality. Personally, I think it will just hit me someday. Maybe a little naive, but that is how I roll.

lol thats how u ROLL?? LOL

my perfect girl would be a bit shorter then me either curly brunette hair or straight brunette hair or just realy nice hair eye color doesnt realy matter, i want her to be tanned color sorta and have a nice smile and a nice body and like good clothes and is extremely nice and all that...
wow i sorta indirectly put my best friends descrepition ahh i hope i dont like her or anything.. but id never date her or anythin itd feel wrong

they do say that u, usually marry ur best friend! i know i am going to the only bad thing about us is that i didnt get to know him as well as what i should have before we stated dating but i dont think that mattered for us

thats really wierd cuz u jus described me... cept i have long brunetter hair not curly

oh no i think we just found a love match! lol lol im just playin

hes prolly got a gf, but im open to ideas...

ino hahahah

mayb mayb not, i woldn't count on it tho

do u even no him?

does he have a girlfriend?

hope ur rite, cuz hes gonna read this and if he does hav a gf im gonna feel STUPID

ok it was a little comforting

i no, i no thank u very much

hahaha my perfect match hahha! if i knew you in like real id probaly go for it but nah we live at other ends of world but if i still lived in michigan i dunno then we can like DO TRIPS TO EACH OTHER AND STUFF!! and go to cedar point together like all those couples haahah juss messin lol, yea i wont ask my friend cus i dont like her like that and she doesnt either so itd be messed up

it b cool if u lived in Michagan wed only live 1 and a half apart, but ya right now just don't work.... hahah if ur ever go to cedr point id be happy to go tho

Does it count if me and a girl both like each other? lol

how so?

The topic...? Does it count if I and a girl I like, like eachother?

Ohh, fronzz, is the girl that likes you pretty? One of the hot ones that you often talk about?

S/.

yea itd be cool but cedar point is sorta i go with family and stuff cus liek i go like once a year so maybe when were oldder

yea that'd be cool

fronzz, yeah why wouldnt that count?? i think it does

Well, found out last night that she doesn't like me...so never mind..Ill just go cry in a corner

well u never know things might change! my bf wouldnt go out with me and i had to con him (jk maybe) and well now we know we will get married in a few years! i wanted to go to prom w/ him my junior year he said no maybe next year and i said what makes u think that i want to go with u next year. well needless to say i went with him and now hes stuck with me to bad he cant get rid of me!!

Well, I'm only a freshman lol. And...well I'll tell you what happened last night.

So, she plays basketball, and she was playing at my school. After the game, I talked to her and introduced her to a few of my friends(named Lacey and Jordan)...Then she had to leave, and so did I...So as I was leaving, Lacey asked me if she could ask her if she liked me..I said "Sure why not"...She said that "No, we're just friends". So I'm sad now lol

True, True....But girls are so amazing

Was that an insult to woman kind?????!!!!!For I am one.WHAT THE HECK IS UP WITH THAT!!!!!

Like yeah, what WAS that?

Anyway, I just noticed the topic. xD I'm usually in the Rp area so...
I just broke up with my bf. He was getting a little... shall we say... excited? He's been coming up to me everyday before we split and he's like asking me things he's never asked before. He's made me so.. disturbed >.< I don't even know what's going on with him. He's going against my beliefs about (For the sake of our younger members) stuff.

So... that said, I've broken up with him, and have decided to avoid him at all costs, even to the extent of blocking his number from my cell if it gets bad... Which I hope won't happen. *Sniffs*

I already sent this in a private message to Firetongue,but I wanted to post it,so here I go:I have the same problem,I fancy MY best BEST friend so it would be even worse in my story,BUT I also think that my best BEST friend has a fancy in ME which would be interisting.

Well, what he said is true in a way. And, besides, I doubt the case can be made that most guys are amazing. Maybe not even some.
Women are called the fairer gender for a reason, you know.

@Firetounge:
I'm not creepy, am I?

I'm afraid that because of my status as a partially retarded guy, I cannot offer any sage advice. It all depends on what you want more, I guess.

heh, immediate human interaction doesn't have to be the only way you survive. i swear i could live by myself, interacting with NO ONE, and just writing books, mailing them out and stuff to publishers, and be happy just posting here with you guys. of course, i'd get lonely after a while and seek a girlfriend, but by that point i would know all, because this topic would tell all ^.^ ha. j/k. i don't want to live in complete isolation. it's not right. and to all the people who like their best friends, hey, as they say (and it's been said before on here), most people do end up falling for their best friend. and most of the time their wife/husband stays their best friend throughout life.

Well.....I thought you were kinda saying(in different words) that you thought that some girls were ugly,WHICH THEY ARE NOT!!!ALL girls are pretty or unique or just plain different.I know a couple friends that were teased for being different or unique in there own way.Cause remember,the words that were said in a different topic,"There is no body langauge to help you read what people write."those are some exact words that some body said,I can't remember who.So you should understand why I misunderstood.Sorry if I offended you

girls can take you,flip you over, and leave you ruined

That's true, but why look at the bad side?
Things can work out too. Optimism is a good thing.

HAH. Optimism? what happens when she first tells you she's been hiding her feelings for two weeks, says she might not love you anymore, stops talking to you for the night, because you fall asleep, and at 4 AM cheats on you, THEN breaks up with you sunday morning at 10 AM, and the best reason she can find is because it felt right with the guy. how does optimism fit into that bluntly specific horror story? and how should a fourteen year old boy take that kind of crap? sure, you could say don't get into a relationship that deep that early in life, and i've learned that lesson the hard way. so no need repeating what scrapes through the inside of my skull day in and day out.

Woah woah... Kaeras, slow down, calm down, and take a very...deep...long breath. Better? Good.

I thought I helped you resolve that question ages ago. Oo




Well... It might have been worse, that's a start,


I really have no answer there Kaeras, cause I'm no guy but you could always vent your anger... on someone... or somthing, or start an Rp with lots of bad things happening to your gf OR make a new topic in the fanfic section. (That's what wolvie did.)

Hope it helps, and I really mean it.

i laughed when i saw that post, eriel. honestly. and i'm not trying to make you feel bad, it was a good laugh. one from my soul, which hasn't happened for a LONG time. wrestling didn't help resolve that pent-up anger and neither did an rpg. you should know from crazy stuff i wrote on FWRPG. go there and go to real world or other world and find the last three started by me and see if they don't have hate laced throughout. i'll admit, i have calmed down since then. it's just lonely friday nights when i'm feeling particularly foggy in the head bring back shadows that i can't seem to forget.

Hah, don't worry, I don't feel bad, I actually wanted you to laugh =P
I suppose you're gonna wait for the next girl to come your way now, or perhaps wait till you're like... 16 rofl. Or... get a new one right now and get stabbed in the heart again? *Nudge* Go on! *nudge*

i understand that firetongue. that's part of what she said when she did break up with me, the fact that she was indecent enough to cheat then break up instead of telling the guy to wait just kind of gets to me every time i think about it.

and she still expected us to be friends after that. i tried, i really did, but i just couldn't do it. couldn't talk to her anymore. thankfully she was from a different school about fifteen miles up the road, so i don't have to see her everyday. or at all, for that matter. now i see how messed up that relationship really was and i've been more cautious since.

I've never been through that kind of thing(and I don't want to!!)but that is REALLY wrong.And it wasn't fair for you either.I know what you can do(evil smile )make her feel what YOU feel.Say you want to get back together,and then cheat on her!!That will make her understand what you felt when she broke up AND cheated on you!!

That seems like going a little overboard to me...

i love him becuse he his one of the omly people that undrestand me
i sacrificed getting into the popular group because i love him
i would love 4 us 2 go 2 the beach and watch the sun set

i did one better. instead of doing that and risking getting caught up again, i cursed her. i told her i hoped that the same thing she did to me happened to her. she didn't take that too well. and i to this day hope that it happens to her. plus, the guy that she cheated with was 18, and her dad found out that he was 18 because she was wanting to go out with him, and forbid her from seeing him. (because she's only 15) so that made me kinda happy that the (bad name for a bad guy) didn't get to go out with her.

I am sooo disappointed in you Kaeras lol. Revenge is never right but in this case, I guess it was justified